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Where Are the Roots of Corruption—and How Is It Similar to Addiction?

Let’s Explore the Truth When we talk about corruption in politics, education, or government offices, we often treat it as a problem at the top. But the real roots of corruption lie elsewhere—deep in our classrooms . Corruption doesn’t begin in a minister’s cabin or a government department. It begins in the exam hall—with a whisper, a hidden chit, or a stolen glance at a friend’s answer sheet. We casually call it “helping a friend.” HOW THE SEED IS SOWN It all starts with a distorted idea of smartness and kindness : •A student cheats and calls it clever. •A friend helps someone cheat and calls it loyalty. •A teacher looks away, thinking it's harmless. But this is the beginning of moral compromise. Children begin to internalize dangerous messages: •“Success matters more than honesty.” •“If everyone does it, it must be okay.” And slowly, the brain rewires. What once felt wrong now feels routine—and even justified. This is how the foundation of corruption is quietly laid, long before a...

Adult Tantrums: The Silent Epidemic of Control and Chaos

When we think of temper tantrums, what comes to mind? A crying child at a grocery store, perhaps, throwing themselves on the floor over a chocolate bar. But what if tantrums didn’t stop in childhood? What if they simply evolved into quieter, more manipulative forms, hidden behind emotional drama, threats, and even violence? This blog explores the uncomfortable truth: tantrums don’t vanish with age—they often grow into a darker emotional strategy used by adults, families, and even societal groups to gain control when things don’t go their way. Part 1: The Family Drama — When Love Turns Into Emotional Blackmail We often hear that children throw tantrums when they don’t get what they want. But many Indian parents do the same, only with more cunning. Imagine a young adult who wants to pursue arts, but the parents dream of a doctor in the family. Instead of healthy discussion, the parents resort to emotional manipulation : “You’ll break my heart.” "You will spoil my reputation." ...