Psychology and Indian Society: Changing Mindset

In everyday life, we often encounter people whose actions—though seemingly normal or even “caring”—feel disturbing, overbearing, and emotionally draining. They may be laughing, crying, or claiming to act for our welfare, yet somehow, their behavior leaves us exhausted, manipulated, and unheard. These people may not carry the clinical label of “narcissist,” but at the core of their actions lies one disturbing truth: It’s always about them. 🔹 The Selfish Personality: No Room for You A selfish person does not recognize boundaries. Their emotional world is centered on fulfilling their own needs, even if that means stepping over your mental space, decisions, or freedom. If they laugh, it’s to feel superior. If they cry, it’s to gain sympathy or regain control. If they help, it’s so they can later claim a favor or appear morally high. Even their so-called goodness is transactional—done not out of compassion, but to gain praise, power, or satisfaction.  “Everything they do—whether it se...

When we think of temper tantrums, what comes to mind? A crying child at a grocery store, perhaps, throwing themselves on the floor over a chocolate bar. But what if tantrums didn’t stop in childhood? What if they simply evolved into quieter, more manipulative forms, hidden behind emotional drama, threats, and even violence? This blog explores the uncomfortable truth: tantrums don’t vanish with age—they often grow into a darker emotional strategy used by adults, families, and even societal groups to gain control when things don’t go their way. Part 1: The Family Drama — When Love Turns Into Emotional Blackmail We often hear that children throw tantrums when they don’t get what they want. But many Indian parents do the same, only with more cunning. Imagine a young adult who wants to pursue arts, but the parents dream of a doctor in the family. Instead of healthy discussion, the parents resort to emotional manipulation : “You’ll break my heart.” "You will spoil my reputation." ...