Psychology and Indian Society: Changing Mindset

🌑 The Origin of Evil’s Deception In the beginning, evil was rejected. It was ugly, selfish, and raw—too obvious to deceive anyone. It had no fans, no charm, and no admiration. But evil is not foolish—it is observant. It began watching the divine : •How it speaks. •How it behaves. •How it gives, forgives, and glows with authenticity. Evil was mesmerized by how the divine attracted people—not through force, but through love and righteousness. So evil decided to imitate . But it didn’t change its inner nature . It only wore the outer garments of goodness. Thus began the most dangerous illusion in human society: The imitation of goodness without the transformation of conscience. This is what we now call: Image Building . 🌍 Where This Illusion Exists Today We see it everywhere: •In homes , where toxic relatives pretend to be loving while manipulating. •In workplaces , where people act supportive but secretly sabotage others. •In politics , where leaders speak of justice but crave control...

We often talk about patriarchy as a system that oppresses women and favors men. While this traditional understanding holds a large part of the truth, it is limited. The real problem runs much deeper—and unless we understand its root, we will keep fighting symptoms instead of the disease. Let’s take a journey to redefine patriarchy—not just through the lens of gender, but through the lens of justice and righteousness —and their absence. 🔹 Phase 1: Traditional Understanding of Patriarchy Patriarchy has long been understood as a social structure in which men dominate—economically, politically, religiously, and socially. This is absolutely true. This view sees patriarchy as: A system where men inherit power, and women are reduced to submissive caregivers. A culture that leads to female infanticide, lack of education, bride burning, dowry harassment, and the suppression of women’s voices. A world where gender roles are rigid, and women are often denied autonomy. Feminist movements arose t...

In everyday life, we often encounter people whose actions—though seemingly normal or even “caring”—feel disturbing, overbearing, and emotionally draining. They may be laughing, crying, or claiming to act for our welfare, yet somehow, their behavior leaves us exhausted, manipulated, and unheard. These people may not carry the clinical label of “narcissist,” but at the core of their actions lies one disturbing truth: It’s always about them. 🔹 The Selfish Personality: No Room for You A selfish person does not recognize boundaries. Their emotional world is centered on fulfilling their own needs, even if that means stepping over your mental space, decisions, or freedom. If they laugh, it’s to feel superior. If they cry, it’s to gain sympathy or regain control. If they help, it’s so they can later claim a favor or appear morally high. Even their so-called goodness is transactional—done not out of compassion, but to gain praise, power, or satisfaction.  “Everything they do—whether it se...

“Matru Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava” — Mother is God, Father is God This ancient Vedic mantra is one of the first values taught to an Indian child. It conveys a deep message of reverence, gratitude, and unquestioned respect toward parents. But as a society, while we are taught to worship our parents as divine, we must now confront a painful question: Have Indian parents truly acted like God? Or are many simply demanding god-like respect without god-like responsibility? Let’s Confront the Truth A Terrorism That Happens at Home   Since the 1990s, over 10 million female fetuses have been aborted in India — victims of our obsession with sons. Chilling Parallel: Terrorists kill for religious supremacy. Parents kill daughters for gender supremacy — to feel powerful by producing a boy. Like terrorism thrives on secret ecosystems — so does female foeticide, rooted in: •Cultural conditioning •Social pressure •Political silence And like terrorists in Kashmir who confessed to murders but r...

  Let's Explore 🔹 1. Subconsciously, Women Choose Their Own Chains In many Indian households, it’s the woman who devalues her own gender. She may prefer a boy child over a girl , fearing that a daughter will bring burden, dowry issues, or “no return.” She may willingly abort a female foetus, not because someone forces her, but because she believes a girl is less valuable. This is psychological slavery , where the victim begins to believe the oppressor’s values ; Which is the Root Cause of Crime Against Women.  🔹 2. Mothers Pass On The Chain Daughters grow up seeing their mothers serve silently and treat sons like kings. They learn that their value lies in pleasing others , not in being free. A girl absorbs the belief: “ I am secondary. My rights come last .” Later, when she marries: She leaves her father’s home and enters her husband’s home as a stranger , where she struggles to find her place . She believes only if she keeps her husband happy, she’ll be accepted. This ins...